Spoilers beneath.
When Maitreyi Ramakrishnan first landed the function of Devi Vishwakumar, the lead of Netflix’s By no means Have I Ever, she was solely 17. Since then, the now 21-year-old has given her character a youthful vulnerability that’s typically lacking in teen reveals as of late, whereas additionally highlighting the experiences of an Indian American household. By way of all her shenanigans, Devi has reminded viewers of all of the chaotic feelings, landmark moments, and confusion round identification that are likely to occur in these key highschool years.
She additionally received tangled in a traditional love triangle.
Devi begins the sequence infatuated with the preferred boy in class, Paxton Corridor-Yoshida (Darren Barnet), however her status as “Loopy Devi” precedes her. After the loss of life of her beloved father, Mohan (Sendhil Ramamurthy), her grief paralyzes her. Actually. When she lastly returns to highschool capable of stroll once more, Devi finds herself appearing out to keep away from confronting her emotions. Living proof: She straight propositions Paxton to sleep collectively.
The present’s 4 seasons observe Devi’s discovery of intercourse and courting, and rapidly introduces the opposite object of her affection, Ben Gross (Jaren Lewinson), who begins out as her nemesis earlier than they rapidly turn out to be extra. Whereas different potential romantic pursuits pop up right here and there—together with season 4’s unhealthy boy Ethan (Michael Cimino)—Devi’s ties to Paxton and Ben at all times precipitated probably the most stress.
Now, the beloved sequence attracts to an in depth as its fourth and last season arrives Netflix, and it facilities on much more than Devi’s romantic life. Right here, we break down the ending with the assistance of the forged.
What occurs within the finale?
The final season is essentially about transitions as everybody figures out the place they’re heading post-high college. Devi graduates and is accepted to Princeton, whereas Ben goes to NYC for an internship over the summer time. It looks like their paths are lastly diverging, and it’s time to let one another go. In the meantime, Paxton has discovered love with one other trainer (a younger trainer) after he begins working as a swim coach on the college, having discovered his freshman 12 months of school somewhat too difficult. That wraps the whole lot up, proper? Not fairly.
One among Devi’s ethical foils within the present has been her grandma, Nirmala (Ranjita Chakravarty), who tearfully confesses in season 4 that she has been courting a person named Len (Jeff Garlin)—a white man, which she will be able to’t cease mentioning. Devi and her mother, Dr. Nalini Vishwakumar (Poorna Jagannathan), are literally very supportive of Nirmala’s love, which might by no means have occurred with out the expansion they skilled these previous 4 seasons.
The finale options the celebratory marriage ceremony of Len and Nirmala. The entire occasion is a showcase for a way Devi’s relationship along with her household has modified by the years, particularly with Nalini and her cousin, Kamala (Richa Moorjani). In a becoming show of their sisterly bond, Devi and Kamala dance collectively on the marriage ceremony.
“It simply felt like such a celebration of our characters, of our characters’ journeys and development and the relationships,” Moorjani informed ELLE.com on the By no means Have I Ever “Had An Inspiration Like You” tastemaker reception this week. “[It’s] Kamala and Devi dancing collectively after season 1, the place Devi would’ve by no means even thought of that, but additionally only a celebration of the present. It couldn’t have been a extra good ending.”
Jagannathan agreed. She additionally weighed in on Devi and Nalini’s “mother-daughter relationship, which has required development from each events.” Towards the tip of the sequence, we see that “Devi steps as much as guardian and information and encourage Nalini as properly,” not simply the opposite manner round. “She’s at all times taken care of individuals. By season 4, she is being taken care of somewhat bit,” she provides.
Nalini can also be going by adjustments herself, along with her solely daughter going off to school and a brand new love curiosity, the household’s contractor Andres, in her life. “I at all times say it’s a season of letting go: letting go of my daughter, letting go of grief, letting go of cultural values that simply don’t serve us anymore,” Jagannathan says.
So who does Devi find yourself with?
One of many troublesome classes Devi learns as she grows up is that she will be able to’t deal with individuals like they solely exist to serve her needs; at one level, she dates Paxton and Ben on the similar time, hurting them each. In Paxton’s case, he really will get hit by a automobile—nonetheless, they keep shut all through the sequence. In season 4, sparks appear to reappear between Paxton and Devi after they get unintentionally get locked in a provide closet collectively and kiss. However in the end, they preserve their distance given Paxton is now a member of the college employees and Devi is a pupil, they usually finish the present as mates.
“I like how they ended within the sense that they actually do worth one another. They do love one another otherwise,” Ramakrishnan informed ELLE.com on the on the By no means Have I Ever “Had An Inspiration Like You” occasion. She added that Devi and Paxton “have a really deep actual respect for one another that’s actually fairly lovely.”
In truth, she’s glad the ultimate season targeted on extra than simply romance; Devi’s friendships with Fabiola (Lee Rodriguez) and Eleanor (Ramona Younger) additionally take middle stage. “Platonic relationships are simply as vital as romantic relationships, proper?” Ramakrishnan defined. “I hate in TV reveals and films after they make it look like that the particular person, that love curiosity, as soon as they get collectively, that’s their greatest particular person of their life. I’m like, ‘What the hell, man? That’s so dumb.’”
As for Ben, on the finish of season 3, he and Devi have intercourse, and season 4 opens with the repercussions of that call. (They’re awkward teenagers in any case!) Once they’re unable to specific their true emotions, they’re pushed aside—Ben dates Margot for a bit; Devi has a fling with Ethan—till the final second.
Ben reveals up at Nirmala’s marriage ceremony to admit his like to Devi and ask her to provide their relationship a severe strive. He’ll be in New York for school at Columbia, and he or she’ll be in New Jersey at Princeton. Not too far. The pair get a do-over again at Ben’s room, and this time their sexual encounter goes a lot better.
Nonetheless, Ramakrishnan doesn’t suppose that’s the tip of Devi and Ben’s story. She describes their relationship as “a rollercoaster, however not one that’s performed. It’s going to proceed.”
What occurs subsequent?
We don’t see the whole lot, however in a closing montage, By no means Have I Ever does attempt to give everybody a contented ending on the faculty (or film set) of their alternative. Fabiola is constructing robots, Eleanor is directing a movie along with her boyfriend Trent overseeing pyrotechnics on set, Paxton has lastly discovered a school he enjoys being at greater than highschool, and Ben and Devi are cuddling in a school dorm.
Kamala and Nalini’s futures look shiny too. “I feel [Nalini is] stepping right into a time of being courageous, of self-care, of exploring who she is with out attachments,” Jagannathan informed ELLE.com. “A very totally different phrase of womanhood that she was unable to have till now.”
Kamala, however, is getting ice cream with Manish in Baltimore within the epilogue montage, hinting that she ended up shifting there to take that job supply. Moorjani’s hopes for her character are easy however grand: “I feel Kamala’s going to win a Nobel Peace Prize.”
To Ramakrishnan, the scene that basically captures Devi’s evolution is the ultimate time she kneels at her household’s altar to wish, an everyday follow for her in instances of stress. This time, Devi has a way more hopeful and appreciative tone than ever earlier than.
“That final altar scene, that’s what issues to me,” she stated. “What occurs after, irrespective of who gained after, it didn’t actually matter. As a result of to me, it is about that praying scene. That’s the epitome of Devi’s character. That’s the last pit cease, not ending up with Ben within the dorm. Not that. It’s being very grateful for the life that she’s had and that the life she’s going to proceed to have due to the individuals she has round herself, but additionally for the particular person she is herself.”
Ramakrishnan is aware of that By no means Have I Ever will probably be missed, and that it leaves behind a legacy of representing Indian American teenagers and households in a groundbreaking manner. However she senses that much more progress lies are forward.
“For the followers which are like, ‘Oh, we’re going to overlook the present. No, what are we going to do with out it?’ Simply wait somewhat longer as a result of one thing higher than By no means Have I Ever goes to occur,” she stated. “It’s solely inevitable. That’s the one manner I’d see minorities of all totally different identities coming round: greater and higher.”

Aimée Lutkin is the weekend editor at ELLE.com. Her writing has appeared in Jezebel, Glamour, Marie Claire and extra. Her first guide, The Lonely Hunter, will probably be launched by Dial Press in February 2022.
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